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Vanilla sex: The best you've ever had?

  • Thank you for this comment on "being normal is OK."
    I've also been with my wife for 25ish years. And Yes, we are not magazine cover style. We've had good and bad times, wonderful sex an boring sex. But still I wouldn't change her for the world and everything gets better with age. even rythm and time spent together.
    So OK if you like novelty or pain, I prefer confort and happyness. It maybe boring, But Hey I'm not in this to win a price. I like to wake up to someone... the same someone with a smile... even with wrinkles.
    Cheers and keep on
    JY

  • I must add that a sense of humour is essential too - not laughing at each other but enjoying laughter together and not taking life too serious. Sometimes when the sex does not seem to be going well, my husband and I just laugh it off and try later that day. It's not a big deal and it avoids continuing when it is just not happening. I think some men are fearful of a problem even when it is just a temporary glitch.

  • I would really love to hear what David Eddie's wife REALLY thinks about his three to thirteen minutes of vanilla lovemaking... His sex life sounds incredibly boring--not for the lack of props, but for the lack of... imagination and spontaneity he seems to possess--case in point, this quote right here:

    "It takes place in a bed, where you are both warm and dry and can pull the covers over you or toss them off as circumstances require."

    yee haw? I practically fell asleep reading this passage; the entire article just made me feel really sorry for his wife.

    And perhaps I'm wrong, but it would seem that if he has to insist that "yes, my sex life really IS good!" then it negates all possibility of the aforementioned being true.

    Just my two cents.

  • "Afterwards, one of us might casually say, “That was fun.”

    Um...I hate to break it to you, but the above quote is not exactly a testimony to passion. Perhaps you should try spicing it up a bit, eh?

    "Sex that good should not be legal!"

    There...that's what you want your significant other saying; or something akin.

    Just an FYI

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